FACT: Three of the most challenging words to say in the English language: “I don’t know.” Why so difficult? It requires humility to admit we don’t know and trust in those that do. Listen on the sidelines at any youth sporting event to those frustrated spectators screaming at the coaches and officials. I assume most […]
We all have those people in our lives that brighten our days , and warm our hearts. Sydney is that Camper that is friends with all, kind to all, and above all loves to have a goodtime with good company. You can count on all the Smiles + Giggles happening in her presence. Since this […]
“Is there a direct correlation between the quality of our relationships and the amount of money we spend on Amazon?” A thought I shared with Jennifer last week. We buy more when we feel we need a “boost.” For the same reason, people (kids AND adults) spend more time on social media when they feel down. People are always […]
How serious are kids about life? The average answer from the group of 17 year olds I teach each week: 4.75 (1-10 scale) “Getting serious” about life doesn’t mean no laughs, all business and limited fun. To the contrary, a little seriousness about cleaning your room (or cabin), choosing to eat better food, or spend […]
(1) Trust develops (2) Relationship deepens (3) Quality of life improves. Isn’t this what we’re after? A higher quality of life. These are JUST THREE of the most important lessons to be learned at camp. DEF: “Help Wanted” Kiowa promotes Quality Friends, Responsibility, Fresh Air, Team Work, Perseverance Kiowa demotes screen-time, cynicism, bullying & anything […]
A few days ago, I requested a favor on social media from my fellow dads. Tell your kids you’re proud of them. This habit has made my job as a dad a little easier. Lets be honest, all kids, newborn to 18 years…every day, every personality, every kid is different. Yet they all respond […]
There is something captivating about Camp Kiowa. Why do I say that? When you enter the Kiowa gates you are able to play like a kid at heart, free from distraction and without a doubt will be celebrated for the rare individual you are. In my two years at camp, I have discovered things about […]
“But, Dad, they’re the leader. They shouldn’t have to apologize. “ This attitude holds true for my kids…and many other kids as well. “Dad, you’re so lucky, no one is ever tells you what to do.” “Dad, you have life so easy. You always do whatever you want.” The other day I put […]
My parents are planning a family gathering for a few days with their children and grandchildren just after the new year. With 24 people in total and considerable distance between families, they’ve opted to use a large home somewhere in the middle of an open pasture in central Oklahoma. It is miles away from the […]
