Lance and the other “at-risk” kids at Westside Alternative school were the best. Empathy, communication, understanding and value in relationships we all things they were forced to learn on their own.
I’ve been fortunate to work with kids from across the country and ALL walks of life. The wealthy, the “at-risk,” rural kids, city kids and kids in a variety of age groups.
In nearly every situation, “a positive response” was always the goal…I.E. a higher level of respect, deeper communication, stronger empathy, additional responsibilities accepted, better work ethic and even some healthy risk-taking.
People have always ask me, “How do you get them to respond so well?”
In a training manual currently under development, I’ve been ask to compile all the tools I’ve used. When put in practice, you’ll see improved relationships with your own kids resulting in positive behavioral change and a higher quality of life.
I wanted to share one you can use today
“Breathe“ – Emergencies are a rarity in life. Use time in your favor. Take a step back. Breathe. Write down your frustration and why it is troublesome. Then approach the situation ONLY when your heart rate has dropped to a normal level.
Breathe. Ask. Understand. Repeat.
Progress and Positive emotion will result.
Enjoy the day,
Brian
